Sometimes people come into your life & you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are & or who you want to become You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know at the very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
and sometime things will happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, & unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming these obstacles that you would have never realized your true potential, strength, will power, or heart
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by mean of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness & sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without this small test, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe & comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.
The people that you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you will become Even the bad experiences are learned from. In fact, they are the most poignant ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love & how to open your heart & eyes to things.
Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment & take from those moments everything you could possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before & actually listen... Let yourself fall in love again, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right too.
Tell yourself that you are a great individual & believe in yourself. For if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make your life anything you wish.....Create your own life & then go out & live it with absolutely NO REGRETS. Most importantly, if you love someone tell him or her, for you NEVER know what tomorrow may have in store. And learn a lesson in life each day you live.
Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.... Was it worth it?
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
there is nothing i can do about it...
This week was such a mess...I'm going crazy and I don't know what am I even doing,I'm basically I'm like a lost puppy who it trying to find the way back home.Sometimes I wish I could just go somewhere far and don't ever come home for ever.Everyone thinks my life is so perfect but guess what they are wrong about it.
There is one I've learned that things change, people change, and it doesn't mean you forget the past or try to cover it up. It simply means that you move on and treasure the memories. Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means accepting that some things weren't meant to be.
The worst thing that sucks is that i can give good advise and convince my friends not to do something stupid and make them feel good about them self but I cant convince myself or stand up myself,I feel like I'm too weak to do anything.I can tell you one thing that I'm the type of girl who hides everything from everyone and always put a smile on my face and be there for my family and friends cause if they are happy then I'm happy...the only thing that keeps me going is my friends and family.
I use to have dreams that my boyfriend is the perfect guy for me,unfortunately all that dreams has fade away just with a blink of an eye.I try really hard to keep my relationship going but it did not work it only made it worst and made me feel like reaping my heart out.. then I told myself why on earth should I do that just for one stupid guy who did not mean anything to me anymore in my life and I was sure that there will be a guy who out there for me and guess what I just found him and its still in the process,if he can put a smile everyday on my face and see the worst of me then I'm 100% sure that he deserved the best from me.
I think that the only reason people hold onto memories so tight is because memories are the only things that dont change; when everybody else does.
There is one I've learned that things change, people change, and it doesn't mean you forget the past or try to cover it up. It simply means that you move on and treasure the memories. Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means accepting that some things weren't meant to be.
The worst thing that sucks is that i can give good advise and convince my friends not to do something stupid and make them feel good about them self but I cant convince myself or stand up myself,I feel like I'm too weak to do anything.I can tell you one thing that I'm the type of girl who hides everything from everyone and always put a smile on my face and be there for my family and friends cause if they are happy then I'm happy...the only thing that keeps me going is my friends and family.
I use to have dreams that my boyfriend is the perfect guy for me,unfortunately all that dreams has fade away just with a blink of an eye.I try really hard to keep my relationship going but it did not work it only made it worst and made me feel like reaping my heart out.. then I told myself why on earth should I do that just for one stupid guy who did not mean anything to me anymore in my life and I was sure that there will be a guy who out there for me and guess what I just found him and its still in the process,if he can put a smile everyday on my face and see the worst of me then I'm 100% sure that he deserved the best from me.
I think that the only reason people hold onto memories so tight is because memories are the only things that dont change; when everybody else does.
Maybe...
.........Maybe, she thought as she walked, Brian McBrian was onto something important. Maybe happiness didn't have to be about the big, sweeping circumstances, about having everything in your life in place. Maybe it was about stringing togther a bunch of small pleasures. Wearing slippers and watching the Miss Universe contest. Eating a brownie with vanilla ice cream. Getting to level seven in Dragon Master and knowing there were twenty levels to go.
..........Maybe happiness was just a matter of the little upticks-the traffic signal that said "Walk" the second you got there-and downticks-the itchy tag at the back of your collar-that happened to every person in the course of a day. Maybe everybody had the same alloted measure of happiness within each day.
..........Maybe happiness was just a matter of the little upticks-the traffic signal that said "Walk" the second you got there-and downticks-the itchy tag at the back of your collar-that happened to every person in the course of a day. Maybe everybody had the same alloted measure of happiness within each day.
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